Raleigh - Durham...A Real N.C. Girl's Perspective

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My Christmas Eve Miracle

Ever since I was a small child, I've had an acute fear of fire. My fear was so intense, in fact, that it was constantly on the forefront of my mind and followed me into my adulthood. Three years ago...on Christmas Eve...my greatest fear became reality. On that day, God gave me one of the most precious gifts I've ever received. Today...I offer this story of God's love and faithfulness as my gift to you.

 

On Christmas Eve 2005, I jumped out of bed extra early and hit the floor running. I had a mile long list titled, ‘Things I MUST do TODAY or ELSE!!!' The ‘ELSE' part was not an option...as I was hosting a Christmas celebration at my home that evening. I could not afford to waste even one minute...and I did not.

 

In case you are wondering, I did have a second list...‘ HONEY-DO THIS or ELSE!!!' ‘Honey' was up and running also...all the way out the door to finish some shopping. The morning was off to a great start...everything right on schedule.

 

Passing my sister-in-law's bedroom, I noticed that a stack of cardboard boxes was sitting outside her door. She had promised to take them to the recycling bin days earlier, and I became irritated when I saw them still there. In a release of anger, I began crushing the boxes...loudly enough that she would hear me...and she did. Then, I placed the boxes out on the back deck...reasoning that I would take them to the recycling bin after I was showered and dressed...the next thing on my list.

 

Hurrying back up the stairs and into my bedroom, I smiled as I thought..."I bet she'll take those boxes to the recycling bin now!" I paused for a moment and listened...she was indeed running down the stairs. ::MISSION ACCOMPLISHED:: I headed to the bathroom and jumped into the shower...still smiling.

 

Turning on the water, I had an argument with myself about whether or not I should ‘waste' time cleaning the master bathroom...as our guests would most likely use the downstairs' bath. I decided that a quick touch-up was in order and should be completed before my shower.  As I began cleaning, I looked at the window and thought "I should open that window and let some fresh air inside. Besides...it is an unusually warm day." Immediately, I remembered that the window was painted shut...that I had not been successful in opening it the previous time I had attempted to do so.

 

Having almost given up the idea of opening the window, I had one last thought..."I'm a strong woman. I can open that window if I try hard enough." I walked over to the window anticipating a challenge...but to my surprise...the window flew open effortlessly. Pleased with myself, I lingered at the window to enjoy the warmth and sunshine. That is when I smelled it and thought..."but it is too warm for the fireplace...something is not right!"

 

Grasped by fear and panic, I ran furiously down the stairs and outside...the smell of smoke intensifying with every step. As I rounded the corner, my deepest fears became reality. The whole side of my house was on fire...the natural gas meter and lines enveloped in flames. Instinctually, I ran back inside my house...screaming frantically for my family to wake up and get out. I also had the presence of mind to turn the furnace off as I passed by the thermostat.

 

Even in her deep sleep...when my daughter heard my screams...she knew that something was desperately wrong. She grabbed her cell phone as she ran outside...calling 911. At that moment, I realized that my sister-in-law was still in her room...probably listening to headphones and unable to hear my screams. I pounded on her locked door, screaming for her to get outside. When she opened her door, I grabbed her and forced her down the stairs and outside.

 

By that time, the flames had completely engulfed one side of our home and were spreading across the dry lawn.Wearing my nightgown and flip flops...I began stomping out the fire...praying to God and waiting for the firemen to arrive. Just then, I heard men yelling and looked up to see three of our neighbors running toward our home...one of them carrying a water hose over his shoulder. Working together, we managed to put out most of the flames before the firemen arrived...saving our home from total ruin.

 

When the crisis was over, the fire chief pulled me to the side and said... "Do you have any idea how blessed you are? Not only did you almost lose your home today...you almost lost your life." He then showed me the source of the fire...a cigarette dropped in the grass. I turned and looked at my sister-in-law...knowing that she was the only one in our home who smoked.

 

After I explained to him how I had been in the shower and got back out to clean the bathroom...he said these unforgettable words, "Had you NOT gotten out of that shower when you did...your home would have exploded...killing everyone inside."  I looked over at my children...standing in the front yard in their pajamas...and began weeping.

 

On Christmas Eve 2005...God gave me a precious gift...He gave me my children...AGAIN.

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Christmas Eve Events in Raleigh, North Carolina - Pack 'LOVE BASKETS' at The Helping Hand Mission

Help The Helping Hand Mission pack 'LOVE BASKETS' and toys for the needy...

 

Make your Christmas extra special this year by helping those in our community who are less fortunate. Join me and my family at The Helping Hand Mission on December 24th...between 2 - 6 pm...to help pack 'love baskets' and toys for needy families and children. Children are welcome. Dress appropriately for outdoor conditions.

 

 

LOCATION: 

623 Rock Quarry Road Raleigh, NC 27610

Call (919)829-8048 for directions and details

http://www.helpinghandmission.org

 

 

 

 

All of the photographs in this post were taken at the 2008 Thanksgiving Dinner at The Helping Hand Mission in Raleigh, NC. It was an amazing day that I will NEVER forget.

 

 

The little guy pictured at the right was a so sweet. He was shy, but he agreed to pose for a picture for me.

 

 

 

The photograph below was taken across the street from The Helping Hand Mission. There was already a large crowd of volunteers and homeless people assembled for a wonderful Thanksgiving meal and clothing giveaway.

The following photo is part of the Thanksgiving Day volunteer staff with Ms. Sylvia Wiggens...the founder of The Helping Hand Mission. As you can see from all of our smiles...it is a lot of fun to serve others! Not pictured is my dear friend, Carol Smith, who also participated.

The smiling gentleman pictured below served hundreds of plates of home-cooked food...each one with a smile.

There was a line of people waiting for their turn to sit and enjoy a hot Thanksgiving feast. This little guy smiled REALLY big when I gave him the bag of m&m's...but I did not get my camera in time. Isn't he adorable?

This is one of my favorite photos of the day...my youngest daughter, Deren, with a new, little friend.

This last photo shows my girls with Ms. Sylvia Wiggens and some of the children who attended the Thanksgiving dinner at The Helping Hand Mission.

If you do not live in the Raleigh, NC area...look for volunteer opportunities in your area. There is no better way to experience the true joy of Christmas than by sharing your blessings with others.

 

May your Christmas be filled with so much peace and love...that you cannot help but give it away!

 

 

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Written and Posted by:

Elizabeth Nieves - Broker, REALTOR®

The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group @ Keller Williams (A Bilingual Real Estate Team serving Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill NC and surrounding areas.)

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Durham Rescue Mission Annual Toy Giveaway -- December 23, 2008

Christmas Toy Give-A-Way

 

 

On December 23rd, the Durham Rescue Mission hosts its annual Christmas Toy Give-Away. Guests to the event will enjoy a free traditional, christmas meal with all the trimmings and will receive free clothing and free groceries. There will be games and activities for the children, and EVERY CHILD in attendance will receive toys...the only Christmas gifts that some of these children will receive this year. 

 

 

Want to help?


If you would like to help provide Christmas toys for the needy children of our community, please call 919-688-9641 for more details. You can also visit their website at http://www.durhamrescuemission.org

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Nieves - Broker, REALTOR®

The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group @ Keller Williams (A Bilingual Real Estate Team serving Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill NC and surrounding areas.)

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HOME FOR RENT: 6 Epping Court Durham, NC 27703 -- $1300.00 Month

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Located just minutes from RTP, Brier Creek and Raleigh...YOU WILL LOVE THIS HOME!


Features Include:

Fresh and inviting!
Huge kitchen w/ CENTER ISLAND
Separate Family Room & Formal Living Room
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Neighborhood POOL, TENNIS, PLAYGROUND & LAKE!!!


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Bedrooms: 3
Bathrooms: 2.5
Parking Spaces: 2
Year Built: 2002
Subdivision: Grove Park
Lot Size: .44
Garage Size: 1 Car
School District: Durham
Square Footage: 1998
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Broker: The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group
MLS #: 1638505
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NEW LISTING: 6 Epping Court Durham, NC 27703 -- $192,000

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Located just minutes from RTP, Brier Creek and Raleigh...YOU WILL LOVE THIS HOME!


Features Include:

Fresh and inviting!
Huge kitchen w/ CENTER ISLAND
Separate Family Room & Formal Living Room
Separate Dining Room
FINISHED BONUS
ALL APPLIANCES INCLUDED!
Neighborhood POOL, TENNIS, PLAYGROUND & LAKE!!!


Hablamos Español! Llamános AHORA para mas informacíon.
Features
Bedrooms: 3
Bathrooms: 2.5
Parking Spaces: 2
Year Built: 2002
Subdivision: Grove Park
Lot Size: .44
Garage Size: 1 Car
School District: Durham
Square Footage: 1998
Agent Name: Elizabeth Nieves
Broker: The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group @ Keller Williams
MLS #: 1638504
Location
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Governors Row -- Featuring Executive Homes by John Wieland in Cary, North Carolina

Located just off of Harrison Avenue in beautiful Cary, NC...Governor's Row offers the quality and charm of yesterday with all the modern amenities of today.

 

 

There are currently five fabulous, new homes available in this lovely community...ranging in price from the low 600's to the low 700's. How could I possibly choose a favorite?

 

 

Here are a few of the homes in Governor's Row that are under construction and nearing completion.

 

 

 

To date, thirteen homes have sold in Governor's Row...ranging in price from $601,698 to $961,853. The average sold price is $772,659.

 


Governor's Row in Cary, NC is a wonderful place to live!

 

 

 

IF you are considering a move to Cary, NC...

 

I would love to assist you to find your new home. Being a native of the Triangle area, I am in touch with the current market conditions and know how to find the best deal for you. Please call or email me today to schedule a tour of Cary, NC homes for sale!

 

Elizabeth Nieves - Broker, REALTOR®

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Elizabeth@ElizabethNieves.com

 

 

 

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Are you PLANNING for 2009 to be the WORST or BEST YEAR of YOUR CAREER?

 

Today was a typical day for me...BUSY. However, late in the afternoon...while waiting for a client to arrive at my listing...I had a half hour of unexpected and uninterrupted 'thinking' time. 


As I have done much lately, I seized the opportunity to work on my 2009 business plan
...a plan that realistically addresses the 'challenges' of our current real estate market. Mentally projecting six months into the future and attempting to predict the 'temperature' of the market, I had one of those 'ah hah' moments that caused me to stop in my tracks. I'll get back to that a little later in the post.


By nature, I am a planner...a control-freak, according to some people. True to form, I began my real estate career with a clearly defined purpose, plan and goal. In addition to being a planner, I'm also very passionate and hardworking. My husband says I'm the most stubborn person he has ever met. I think 'passionate' and 'hardworking' have a more pleasant ring, but I cannot argue with 'stubborn'...being the realist I am.

Within six months of earning my real estate license, I was the top producing agent in my office.
After only two years in the business, I opened my own brokerage. I could continue to list all of my career achievements, but that is not the purpose of this post. What I will share with you is that...although I did not always follow the 'plan' step-by-step...I always had a plan...a written plan. Furthermore, I have almost always exceeded my own expectations and goals set forth in the plan.


Even now...in this turbulent market...I am busy. I'm certainly not closing as many transactions as I did two years ago, but I'm still in business to do business. The plan has changed with the market, but I'm still making and following a plan.


Earlier in this post, I promised to share my 'ah hah' moment. 
Here goes...

When I began my career, I did not ask anyone what I should expect to accomplish in my first year. If I had done so, I may have learned that only one in ten new agents are still in business after their first year. I may have discovered that it takes the 'average' agent five years to reach the sales level that I achieved in my first six months. What if I had listened to my first broker-in-charge who told me that I would NEVER be successful if I "gave so much (of myself) away" to my clients?


According to the news media, we have not yet seen the worst of the housing crisis. Just today, in a meeting at the Durham Association of REALTORS®
, I learned that they are expecting the greatest decrease in membership for 2009 than any previous year. All of the 'experts' seem to agree that 2009 will be a really bad year to be a REALTOR®. Pondering all of this bad news, it 'hit' me...IF I did not bother to consult the market analysts and news reporters before planning to succeed my first year in business, WHY SHOULD I CONSULT THEM NOW?


Statistically, I was pre-destined to fail...but I did not fail.
In fact, I achieved record-breaking success!



So...I will continue working on my business plan for 2009. ..a plan for success.
I will set realistic and achievable goals, but they will not be based on the experts' predictions of gloom and doom. Nope. Neither will they be driven by fear of failure. In contrast, they will be based on my personal desire and commitment to make 2009 one of the best years of my career.


You see...I believe that:

"Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved." 

- William Jennings Bryan -

 

 

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From our ActiveRain family to theirs - Let's help a family in need

 

In the midst of your Christmas shopping and planning...please take a moment to read this post about Zorra and her family. By joining together, we can make this the best Christmas this little girl and her family have ever had. Bob is even throwing in a special bonus if you give $50 or more!! 

 

Via Bob Stewart - ActiveRain (ActiveRain):

ActiveRain adopted a family for Christmas this year. We want to see if you will help us give them the best Christmas ever.

We actually adopted a little girl and her family through the Seattle Children's Hospital. Zorra is the little girl and she lives with her five siblings and their mom. The family is facing significant financial stressors, like many families across our country, that will prevent them from obtaining needed items during the holidays. Beyond the items they need, we also want to raise the spirits of five children in our community who will not have a Christmas if not for the helping hands of our great network.

Zorra's mother described how the family has lived in battered women's shelters and has faced homelessness on several occasions after she and Zorra's father separated. The mom and her six kids, ages 7-17, have been exposed to domestic violence in their home. While the family now has a stable home, the financial stressors are such that having enough food in the house is a challenge. Mom isn't able to work because several of her children are high needs, medically complex kids requiring a high level of supervision and frequent medical appointments. Mom does everything she can to make ends meet for this family. She feeds her kids each month with donations from the food bank and she was hoping that the family would be eligible for a holiday program otherwise her kids won't be able to open presents on Christmas.

The thought that there are kids, not just these six but many, who won't have presents on Christmas is heartbreaking. Here's why this hits so close to home for me.......

I grew up in a single parent home. My parents got divorced when I was 8. My dad used to beat up my mom. One day my mom decided enough was enough and loaded all of us up and never looked back. I have three younger brothers. My mom worked her butt off to provide for us when we were growing up. I can't remember one time looking back where I felt like I didn't have everything I needed. There may have been times I wanted something and didn't get it, but my mom made sure we got everything we needed.

So Zorra and I have something in common. I was raised by a single mom and I was exposed to domestic violence. But by the grace of God our family had our health. Let's give this family something to look forward to on Christmas.

They need everyday things that many of us take for granted. Paper Towels, laundry soap (can you image how much laundry 6 kids produce?), shampoo, bars of soap, pillows. I'd venture that very few people reading think twice about any of these things. The kids need things like underwear, socks, shoes, pajamas, rain coats. We would really like to get them a few things beyond this as well so that when they wake up Christmas morning they can experience some of the same joy that my son and your son's and daughter's get to experience on Christmas Morning.

If everyone just gave $5 or $10 we can really make a difference in this family's life. So if ActiveRain has helped your business this year, I'm just asking that you take a minute to donate what you can.

I need you guys to come through for me so I am going to offer a free year long Localism sponsorship to anyone that makes a donation of $50 or more. We really want to make this a special holiday for this family.

Christmas Happenings in Elon, North Carolina - 'A Night in Bethlehem' at Fairview United Methodist Church


'A Night in Bethlehem'
 

Fairview United Methodist Church will be hosting the community-wide event 'A Night in Bethlehem' on Sunday, December 14th from 5-7 p.m. FREE activities for the entire family include a live nativity, Christmas music and a marketplace with crafts, food, and more.

 

For More Information:

Phone:
336-584-5411
Email: jahanson@nccumc.org
Location: Fairview United Methodist Church (
Fairview is located a few miles north of Elon off Highway 87) 
Address: 3128 Osceola Road
Fairview United Methodist Church Website:

 

 

 

 

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Christmas Happenings in Durham, North Carolina - 'Drive-Thru Christmas' at Christian Assembly Church

'Drive Thru Christmas'
 

Christian Assembly Church in Durham presents 'Drive-Thru Christmas', December 10th - 13th. Load up your family and friends and drive through the Christmas story, each evening from 6:30 until 9:00PM. Five beautiful scenes are presented with live actors, sets, lights, costumes, music and narration. A free CD or tape is provided. The presentation is absolutely free and open to the public.

  

For More Information:

Phone:
919-471-0220
Email: cach@cadurham.org
Location: Christian Assembly Church 
Address: 5516 N. Roxboro Road (
across the street from Northern High School)
Christian Assembly Church Website:

 

 

 

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